The death of the “Son of David”

Re: Verse reading–2 Samuel 13:1-2, 20-22,30-37, 2 Samuel 14:21-24, 2 Samuel 15:7-14, 2 Samuel 18:6-15, 33 (day seven)
David’s cry touches my heart.  “My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you”  (18:33)  I am certain he was sincere.  Death is often easier than life–preferred over the burden that God requires us to carry.  The crown, however, belonged on David’s head.  Not Absalom’s.  David had to survive so that Christ could come.  The true “Son of David” would also die.  Not in rebellion against authority, but in submission to it.  Not in an attempt to gain glory for himself, but in an act of obedience that would bring “many sons to glory”  Strange irony.  David preferred his own death if his son might  live.  God planned for His Son to die so that others might have life.  David’s assignment was to survive.  Christ’s assignment was to die.  God’s deep, unbending grace requires courage and submission of us all.   Not my will but thine be done.

Too trusting

Re: Verse reading–2 Samuel 13:1-2, 20-22, 30-37, 2 Samuel 14: 21-24, 2 Samuel 15:7-14, 2 Samuel 18:6-15, 33 (day six)
“The king said to him, ‘Go in peace.’  So he (Absalom) went to Hebron.”  (15:9)   He should have known better.  David knew his own heart–how prone to sin it was, how weak when not held accountable.  He should have been more vigilant with his sons.  Should have questioned Amnon more carefully.  “Now why is it that only Tamar can help you feel better, and why does she need to come to your bedroom?”  More cautious with Absalom’s plans.  “Now, what is happening in Hebron?”  Sometimes I feel guilty for being suspicious, careful with others.  (As if it is a character flaw to not trust people easily, automatically)  John 2 makes an interesting observation about Jesus.  “He was not entrusting Himself to them, because He knew what was in all men.”  Jesus knew. It is possible to be too trusting.  We are to be as wise as serpents AND as gentle as doves.

Authority challenged

Re: Verse reading–2 Samuel 13:1-2, 20-22, 30-37, 2 Samuel 14:21-24, 2 Samuel 15:7-14, 2 Samuel 18:6-15, 33  (day five)
“As soon as you hear the trumpets, then say, ‘Absalom is king in Hebron.’ ” (15:10)  It is an old story.  Young man. . .thinks he is ready for leadership. . .impatient. . .willing to do whatever to have his opportunity. . .even betray his father, challenge God’s choice.  He has not, like his father, graduated from the school of patience.  Absalom is a fool.  For years, David has been off-balanced by his own sin and resultant loss of moral authority.  He has been too lenient.  Too trusting.  At the end however, he rises to fight for the place that God has given him.  Was he conflicted to do so?  Yes.  Did he summon up the courage to fight?  Yes.  The loser was Absalom.  “A man can receive nothing unless it has been given him from heaven.”  (John 3:27)  “Wait on the Lord; be strong and let your heart take courage;  Yes, wait on the Lord.”  (Psalm 27:14)

God’s Word = Truth

Re: Verse reading–2 Samuel 13:1-2, 20-22,30-37, 2 Samuel 14:21-24, 2 Samuel 15:7-14, 2 Samuel 18:6-15, 33 (day four)

Isaiah 55:11 says, “So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It will not return to Me empty, without accomplishing what I desire, and without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it.”  To set the stage for this narrative of Absalom’s life…David had just committed his terrible sin with Bathsheba.  Nathan had delivered God’s judgment…the sword would never depart from David’s house, evil would arise from his own house, his wives would be given to another and be violated in broad daylight in public.  David’s sin had far reaching consequences!  Now in the lives of Amnon, his first born son, and Absalom, another son, David experienced God’s judgment.  God’s Word is Truth!  None of God’s Words are void…none will just pass away without success.  Do you treat God’s Word with understanding of their validity?  Do you trust them to come true?  Trust…Believe…God is faithful and true!

Language

Re: Verse reading–2 Samuel 13-18 (day three)
“O Absalom, my son, my son!”  The last thing on one’s agenda is often the command to affirm the sacred duty of living in the presence of others.  That command is sometimes explicit: “Love your neighbor as yourself”;  “Love the foreigner as yourself”.  It is sometimes implicit: “Confess your sins to one another.”  Behind every sorrow, every anguished cry, every story of isolation, every act of hiding, lying, envy, and murder–behind it all–lies the failure to affirm the sacred duty of living in the presence of another person.  Only God can teach us that.  Until we learn, anguish will be the language most fluently spoken in this world.

Two Voices

Re: Verse reading 2 Samuel 13:1-2, 20-22,30-37, 2 Samuel 14:21-24, 2 Samuel 15:7-14, 2 Samuel 18:6-15, 33 (day two)

2 Samuel 12:13
Rape. Murder. Hate. Manipulation. Betrayal. Rebellion. Revenge. Death. David’s life proves that the face of sin is ugly, horrifying. Yet the Enemy continues to whisper, “you will not surely die” (Genesis 3:4). “As long as it’s just a small sin, it’s not that big of a deal. Even the greatest pastors sin yet still have God’s favor. As long as I ask Him after, God will forgive me. I’m only human. At least I didn’t do what she did. Everyone else is doing it. I’ll do it just this once so I’ll know what it’s like.” “You will not surely die” echoes across humanity. Perhaps by pondering David’s story our hard hearts will hear the warning. “Look, the Lord will come with fire…to execute His anger with fury, and His rebuke with flames of fire. For the Lord will execute judgment on all flesh with His fiery sword, and many will be slain by the Lord” (Is 66:14-16). No. It’s not a misprint. The Lord will slay those who persist in rebellion. He will put an end to sin and to all who embrace it. However, there is hope for those who would reject sin and cling to Christ in faith. They will hear another voice saying, “The Lord has taken away your sin; you will not die” (2 Samuel 12:13).

Absent father

Re: Verse reading–2 Samuel 13:1-2, 20-22,30-37, 2 Samuel 14:21-24, 2 Samuel 15:7-14, 2 Samuel 18:6-15, 33 (day one)
According to some recent studies, 40% of American children grow up in a home without a Dad.  The emotional and spiritual cost is high.  To society.  To individuals.  Not less, perhaps, when the Father is present physically, but absent emotionally.  Our RE Verse reading for this week (Thank you FBC for your willingness to read scripture in unity) is the tragic story of David’s relationship with his sons.  Was it busyness?  Was it guilt from the affair with Bathsheba?  What eroded his moral authority?  What made him hesitant to lead?  The scripture never says.  It does report that first Amnon and then Absalom challenged their father’s expectations and authority without any effective response from him.  Impotent with rage.  Filled with remorse.  David helplessly stood by as his family collapsed into crisis.  “He will turn the hearts of the fathers back to the children.”  (Malachi 4:6)  Please God!  Before it is too late.

Last moments and best

Re: Verse reading–Genesis 47:27-31, 48:1-2,8-19, 49:33, 50:1-6 (day seven)
“Then Israel bowed in worship at the head of the bed.”  (47:31)  By now they are regularly calling him Israel.  Jacob was his old name.  It meant “cheat or schemer”.  Years of learning the mercy of a sovereign God have now given him a new heart and a new name.  Israel meant “God- conquered” (sarah=to struggle, el=God)  See Genesis 32 for this amazing turning-point story.  As Jacob struggled with the God of grace, he was conquered by Love.  He became a new man.  Now at the end of life, his new natures shines.  He is calm, trusting.  He sees the future with hope and confidence.  He worships God (at a time when many are tempted to become distracted and self-absorbed).  Strange irony.  Jacob was never more ALIVE than on the day of his DEATH.  Will this be true of me?  You?  Will your last moments be your best, the highest expression of a life changed by God?

Preparing for death

Re: Verse reading–Genesis 47:27-31, 48:1-2,8-19, 49:33, 50:1-6 (day six)
“When the time drew near for Israel to die, he called his son Joseph and said to him. . .’do not bury me in Egypt.’ ” (47:29-30)  It is a time that will come for every one of us.  The time to die.  “As for the days of our life, they contain seventy years, or, if due to strength, eighty years.”  (Psalm 90:12)  Notice Jacob’s absence of avoidance?  Both culturally and spiritually he is prepared.  No fear.  Calm preparation for the next steps.  As a Pastor, I hear the stories, (and deal with the consequences for the family) of people who refuse think/talk about death.  Too fearful.  Too depressing.  Believers have a greater opportunity.  We write our wills.  We speak to our children and friends of our wishes.  We do not fear death.  We prepare for it.  “Store up for yourselves treasures in heaven”, said Jesus. (Matthew 6:20)  It is a day that comes for everyone.  Are you prepared?

Unexpected

Re: Verse reading–Genesis 47:27-31, 48:1-2,8-19, 49:33, 50:1-6 (day five)
“I know, my son, I know.  He too will become a people, and he too will become great.  Nevertheless, his younger brother will be greater than he, and his descendants will become a group of nations.”  (48:19)  It  was an unexpected move.  A departure from tradition.  The oldest son normally received the greater blessing and, with it, the responsibility for leadership in the family.  Jacob, however, favored Ephraim over his older brother.  We do not know how Jacob received this insight, but we do know that he was convinced that God had made this choice.  God does not govern according to our expectations. He chooses and calls according to His free and sovereign will.  Believers learn to trust His judgment.  Strange that Joseph resisted.  God made the same declaration over his life– the younger son to whom his brothers would bow.  What about you?  Open to God’s choice?  Even when it’s contrary to your expectations?