The Everyday Prayer

Paul is very wise in dealing with the Corinthians.  He knows that people are not the same–not by creation or experience.  He knows that “one size fits all” is a lie.  So, he teaches them the principle of love ( vs 1)  and then simply declares his own decision.  “Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again!” (1 Corinthians 8:13)  He is speaking for himself, not telling them what to do.  One person can be a great influence for good.  Trying to convince or control others is sometimes less productive than just deciding for yourself and having the courage to speak up.  “As for me and my house. . .” said Joshua.  I wonder what our church would be like if we had more of Paul’s wisdom– prayerful enough to decide. . . humble enough to decide for ourselves. . . connected enough( and courageous enough) to declare it.  We have a congregational meeting on Sunday night.  Please pray for me to have Paul’s wisdom.  Don

In 1 Corinthians 8:1 the Bible marks a contrast between knowledge and love.  Knowledge puffs up. It makes a person seem bigger than they really are, gives an apperance of spiritual life without the reality.  “Where’s the BEEF?” said the Wendy’s commercial in the 70’s.  Love, on the other hand, builds up.  It edifys. (notice the word “edifice”, the face of a building)  All of us should be concerned with the present condition of our church (and other churches).  Learning scripture is NOT enough.  Knowing truth is NOT enough.  “If I have not love, I am NOTHING” (1 Corinthians 13)  The best thing that knowledge can do for me is to teach me how little I actually know (vs 2) and to send me back to the first principle of the Christian life.  “The man who LOVES God is known by GOD” (vs 3)  Love is the highest connection  between God and man.  It is what we really need to learn.

I appreciated Bryan Richardson’s message this past Sunday.  His point that the Corinthians, for all their problems, were “seeking the good” (by asking Paul questions) made an impression on me.  Are we seeking the good?  Are we asking questions?  It will be an important consideration as we begin this week’s reflection on 1 Corinthians 8 and 10.  In these passages Paul teaches us how to make godly choices on contemporary moral issues.  But, how can Christians absorb and apply the whispered wisdom of the Spirit without time to think and pray?  Nothing that Paul has to say will make a difference in the person who races from one day to the next.  “Be still and know” says the Scripture.  All of us who desire the way of Christ will take time daily to consider the principles which govern our new life.  As we “think on these things”, the Spirit will guide us to make gradual and powerful changes(repentance).  Bless you, dear friend, as you begin this day in quietness before the Lord.

Our first weeks in 1 Corinthians may have been confusing to some.  So many issues!  So many unanswered questions!  Unity (week 1), church discipline  (week 2), marriage, singleness, sex and divorce (week 3).  Yikes! This week will only add to the confusion unless we begin to see the logic and strategy of Paul.  He draws every moral question back to the the will and character of God and the good of man.  For Paul, every Christian choice is shaped by worship to God and love for others.  “Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31)  “Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others” )1 Corinthians 10:24)  Even the liberty that we have found in Christ will have limits that we will gladly accept for these two magnificent guiding purposes.  When Jesus said “Take my yoke upon you”, He was speaking of a two-sided restraint–the glory of God and the good of others.  Pressing on it will lead us forward!

“I have no command of the Lord, but I give my opinion as one who by the mercy of the Lord is trustworthy.”  (1 Corinthians 7:25)  The contrast in this passage is not between the inspired teaching of Christ and the less inspired teaching of the Apostle.  It is rather between teaching for which Paul can appeal to the words of Christ and teaching  to which he appeals to the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.  Both are binding on our conscience.  “All scripture is inspired by God and profitable for doctrine, reproof and instruction in righteousness”.  We regard all Scripture as authoritative, even those parts which come from Paul’s mind, guided by the Spirit.  In a few hours, it will be our privilege to gather around God’s word.  I wonder how many of us will have appropriate reverence for the book we hold in our hands.  It is the word of God!  May the Spirit who wrote it guide us to understand and obey. My love to you all.

“SEEK Ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added to you.”  (Matthew 6:33)  One of Paul’s recommendations in 1 Corinthians 7 is that we not SEEK a change in our marital status.  “If you are bound to a wife, do not seek to be released, if you are released do not seek a wife.” (vs 27)  It is not a hard and fast rule.  “If your marry you have not sinned” (vs 28)  It is a statement of relative priority, a reminder that the deepest needs of the human heart, the largest questions of service and success are not met by adjusting external circumstances (marital, financial, physical)  The true secret of life is the same whether I am single or married.  I can learn it now or learn it later.  Serve Christ!  Find the Lord!  Walk with the Spirit!  These are the things that we should seek.  When we change what we are seeking, everything else begins to fall into place.

In her book When He Doesn’t Believe, Nancy Kennedy describes the challenge of serving Christ without the support of her spouse.  It is book of both honesty and hope.  Christians are not naive about the difficulties ahead for those who “become one” with someone who does not share our love for Christ.  “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers” (2 Corinthians 6:14)  It is not, however, a circumstance that warrants surrender or self-pity.  Christ is sufficient!  In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul describes the contagious influence of a holy life–on a spouse and on a family.  “The unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife.” (vs 14)  Not another plan of salvation, but certainly an argument for faithfulness to Christ and the influence of such an example.  With or without the encouragement of a partner, may the song on our lips be “though none go with me, I still will follow.”   Let us never forget to pray for those in our fellowship who serve Christ faithfully in this way.

“What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”  (Mark 10:9)  Some people believe that divorce is never an option for Christians.  I am not one of them.  While divorce is always a contradiction of God’s will; while it always a tragedy, I believe that Scripture allows divorce in cases of adultery (Matthew 5:32) and abandonment (1 Corinthians 7:15)  On the other hand, divorce is NOT allowed for Christians for reasons of incompatability (sexual, religious, emotional)  1 Corinthians 7:13 says that if the  unbelieving spouse is willing to stay, the believer should also be willing.  Some disagree, but after years of observation and study, I am convinced that even a difficult marriage, sustained by the Spirit and prayer, is better than any divorce–for the sake of the kingdom, the children, society and, yes, even  the spouses.  In daily fellowship with Christ, I have seen people work through deep and difficult differences to emerge victorious!  May the Lord give us all this assurance.

Like us, the ancient Corinthians had questions about marriage.  They were particularly interested in knowing how faith changes the relationship between a husband and wife.  Paul’s first answer is that faith in Christ makes marriage equal.  Ancients were very familiar with the idea that a husband had authority over his wife’s body.  That the wife would also have authority over her husband’s body (1 Corinthians 7:4) was revolutionary!  The Bible teaches that marriage is a mutual relationship between people of equal dignity and value.  Occassionally I hear people say that Paul is anti-women.  I’m convinced that people who make this claim have never read his words for themselves.  “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female, for you are all ONE in Christ Jesus.” (Galatians 3:28)  These are words that changed the world and they came from God through the pen of Paul.

Years ago, before I met Holly, I was very concerned to be married.  I didn’t like being single.  I thought that marriage was necessary–something I needed to “get on with my life”.  It was a consuming concern.  Paul’s letter to Corinth was a turning point for me.  The Lord used it to convince me that marriage was good, but so was singleness.  True success and happiness has nothing to do with marital status.  It is a function of knowing Christ.  In 1977, James Dobson founded “Focus on the Family”.  I have great respect for his radio program and ministry.  I wonder, however, whether the scripture ever lets us FOCUS on the family as the real answer for life’s questions.  While the Bible speaks to marriage, singleness, divorce and sex, the central issue for us all (whatever our circumstance) is the Lord.  The time is short, says Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:29.  Not marriage, not sorrow, not joy, not possessions is the center and secret to life.  Christ is.